Are you putting off taking a vacation because you’re in between relationships, or have your friends used up their vacation days for the year? Solo travel may be less lonely than you think.
Travelling solo after 65 allows you to explore the world on your terms while building meaningful connections. By choosing senior-friendly accommodations, joining group activities, using technology, and engaging in social events, you can create a rich and fulfilling travel experience. Remember, age is just a number—adventure and friendship are timeless. So pack your bags, embrace the journey, and get ready to make new friends wherever your travels take you!
While there are times when you want to enjoy your own company, it’s easy to socialize with others when you’re on the road. Whatever your destination or budget, try these suggestions for making new friends on your next trip and staying in touch after you return home.
Planning Your Trip
- Skip chain hotels. Major hotels make sense for business travellers who need efficiency, but you’ll probably meet a broader range of personalities if you choose alternative accommodations. Try Airbnb, hostels, and family inns.
- Study the language. You can learn basic phrases even if you lack the time to become fluent. Most locals will appreciate your effort.
- Use an app. A growing number of apps will let you use your phone to find a travel companion and coordinate arrangements. A few popular options include Backpackr, Travello, and Tourlina, which are exclusively for women.
- Volunteer your time. Create an instant community by signing up for a group service project. Browse the listings at sites like Workaway that often provide free board in return for your time, or contact a charity you already support to discuss their programs.
- Contact a local. You might feel more secure having someone ready to greet you when you arrive. Ask family and friends if they know anyone at your destination or check for local members of organizations to which you belong. Set up a lunch or coffee date if they’re available.
- Post on Facebook. Share your itinerary with your social media friends. They may send suggestions for who to meet or things to do. Do not post it publicly; only post it to friends.
- Bring along a deck of cards or a miniature magnetic board game. Your fellow travellers may be grateful for the entertainment on long train and bus rides.
12 Tips While On Your Trip
1. Choose Senior-Friendly Accommodations
Where you stay can make a big difference in meeting people. Look for accommodations that cater to a more mature crowd or offer a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere:
- Boutique Hotels or B&Bs: These often have a cozy, intimate setting where it’s easier to strike up conversations with other guests.
- Senior-Friendly Hostels: Some hostels offer private rooms and a quieter environment, perfect for older travellers.
- Retirement or Senior Travel Groups: Consider joining organized tours or stays specifically designed for seniors, where you’ll meet like-minded individuals.
2. Join Senior-Focused Tours and Activities
2. Join Senior-Focused Tours and ActivitiesIf you still have more solitary time than you like or are tired of arranging your itinerary, let a tour guide take over for a while. Most cities will have walking tours for museums, monuments, and neighbourhoods.
Many travel companies and organizations offer tours and activities tailored for older adults. These can be a great way to meet people in a structured and comfortable setting:
- Group Tours: Look for tours designed for seniors, which often include slower pacing, comfortable transportation, and guided activities.
- Cultural or Educational Programs: Join programs like Road Scholar (Elderhostel), which focus on learning and exploration for older adults.
- Day Trips and Excursions: Participate in group outings to local attractions, wineries, or historical sites.
3. Use Technology to Connect
While technology might seem intimidating, it can be a powerful tool for meeting people. Consider these senior-friendly options:
- Meetup: Search for local groups or events that align with your interests, such as book clubs, walking groups, or photography classes.
- Facebook Groups: Join travel or senior-focused groups to connect with others in your destination.
- Travel Apps: Use apps like Travello or Tourlina (for women) to find fellow travellers.
4. Engage in Low-Impact Social Activities
Choose activities that are enjoyable and accessible, allowing you to meet people without overexerting yourself:
- Walking Tours: Many cities offer senior-friendly walking tours focusing on history, culture, or architecture.
- Cooking or Art Classes: Join a local class to learn something new while meeting others.
- Community Events: Attend local festivals, markets, or concerts, often attracting a diverse crowd.
5. Be Approachable and Initiate Conversations
It’s natural to be curious when you’re visiting an unfamiliar place. Ask locals or more seasoned travellers for their recommendations. Invite others to talk about themselves and their experiences. A warm smile and friendly demeanour go a long way in making connections. Start conversations with simple questions like:
- “Have you been here before?”
- “What brought you to this city?”
- “Do you have any recommendations for things to do around here?”
Many people, especially fellow travellers, are happy to chat and share their experiences.
6. Volunteer or Join Local Clubs
Meet others who share your passions. Look up local Meetup groups or check community calendars for wine tastings or scuba diving lessons.
Volunteering or participating in local clubs can be a fulfilling way to meet people while giving back to the community:
- Volunteer Opportunities: Look for short-term volunteer programs, such as helping at a local shelter, teaching English, or assisting with community projects.
- Hobby Groups: Join clubs or groups that align with your interests, such as gardening, photography, or birdwatching.
7. Attend Senior-Friendly Events
Many destinations offer events and activities specifically for older adults:
- Senior Centers: Some cities have senior centers that host social events, classes, and outings.
- Cultural Institutions: Museums, theatres, and libraries often host lectures, workshops, or social gatherings that attract older adults.
8. Travel Slowly and Stay Longer
Spending more time in one place allows you to build deeper connections and feel more at home. Consider:
- Longer Stays: Rent an apartment or stay in a location for several weeks to immerse yourself in the local culture.
- Repeat Visits: Return to places you enjoy, where you can reconnect with people you’ve met.
9. Prioritize Safety and Comfort
While many fellow travellers and locals will be sincere and helpful, staying alert when you’re far from home is important. Protect your valuables, meet in public spaces, and leave if anything makes you uncomfortable.
When meeting new people, it’s essential to prioritize safety:
- Meet in Public Places: Always arrange to meet new acquaintances in well-lit, public areas.
- Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, don’t hesitate to excuse yourself.
- Share Your Plans: Let someone you trust know where you’re going and who you’re meeting.
10. Eat Out Sometimes
10. Eat Out SometimesSharing food encourages conversation. Ask to be seated at the bar instead of at a private table. Invite others to join you for meals or buy street food you can take to a park bench.
Try local food and ask about it.
11. Embrace Rejection and Stay Positive
Resolve to talk with strangers and try new activities. Be prepared to change your daily schedule if someone suggests something interesting.
Not every interaction will lead to a lasting friendship, and that’s okay. Stay positive and keep putting yourself out there. Remember, many people are just as eager to connect as you are.
12. Stay in Touch
When you meet someone you want to stay in touch with, ask for their details before you move on. You might continue an online relationship or show them around if they come to visit where you live. Social media, email, or even a phone call can help you stay connected and plan future meetups.
